Reward System
Plenty of evidence shows that when parents learn how to use positive feedback and rewards, their kids’ behavior improves. Before homeschooling, we've been using reward system that Ariel and Teagan can collect "stars" or "flowers" to exchange for rewards. We hung these boards in the bedroom. We evaluate what they've done each day before they go to bed. During this time, I will ask them questions like "Did you show consideration?" and "why?" I noticed that they learned to pay more attention to what they're doing through this daily practice. They could be punished by taking back their collected stars/flowers if they misbehave. They learned to be responsible to their own behavior through this exercise. Moreover, if they perform really well, we do give them more than one star/flower for each action/behavior. I read some articles and books on how to setup a good reward system. Some of them encouraged to use non-monetary ...